changes

These days, I have been thinking. Nothing much, and these thoughts just come at random time.

I must say, I've been told quite a little more to the real world compared to the past. It's scary and disgusting to know some things some times, and all these oppose my own perceptions and thoughts of the world. I would say, you need to experience all these on your own before you will believe it. When i was first told, I refused to believe but now, not anymore. I'm rather thankful because these are the things that no one has ever told me before.

"Either you shine, or you dim the light of others."

"Being too nice to others is being cruel to yourself."

"It's not your intentions that matter. It's the impression you give others."

The first one sounds mean, competitive and selfish, but don't be too quick to judge. It's true, otherwise others will outshine you. I think as long as you don't 耍心机 to harm others in the really bad way,违背良心 or 做小人, then it should be fine??

Not everyone is nice, sometimes they act like they are, but they may be the one stabbing you behind your back, so watch who's really nice to you, and who isn't.

Lastly, I always thought that as long as my intention is good and 我问心无愧 then I'll be fine. But apparently not.

This world is too scary.

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